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Heterosexual Woman In Love with Gay Friend - Grand Trine

Hi Elsa,

I’m in love with my best friend. He knows I have feelings for him, but it never goes any further that that. He says that he’s gay, but there’s been many times that he admits that he thinks he’s bisexual. Things between us are up and down and we fight like we’re married.

Now he wants me to move in with him. How should I handle this?

Girl Wondering

grand trine Dear Wondering,

I don’t think it matters one way or the other. Have you seen your chart? Your entire chart is one big huge Grand Trine, and you’re going to be fine no matter what.

Look. Is he going to be your man? Hell no. I seriously doubt it. But does he love you? Sure! Does he like you? Yes! Do you guys have fun bickering? Obviously.

So is there a problem here? I don’t think so. Are you going to be devastated when it finally dawns on you that this man is never ever going to be your man? I don’t think so. Are you going to get mad at each other and never speak again? I don’t think so.

And I don’t think it matters if you live together or not. If you want to, then do it. If you don’t then don’t. I don’t think it’s not going to change anything.

And as for my opinion, or my advice, well, I think you’re like siblings. He sounds like a great brother. I think you’ve got a brother/sister thing going and you can have it for the rest of your lives if you wish. And that’s what I would do.

Good Luck.

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