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Pisces Meets Sagittarius
Dear Elsa~
About a year after my divorce, loneliness began to creep in. My neighbor and I had a long running debate about a woman with four kids being able to find a good man. I put up an online profile to prove to her it was impossible. Turns out, I was the one that was wrong.
The man I met every single one of my desires, and we fell into a whirlwind relationship. We knew our time together would be very short, as he had only one year before having to leave back to his home country. Also, neither of us wanted to settle down, and he had no desire for a family.
Anyway, we both fell very much in love/desire/adoration… whatever you care to call it. I was the first woman he has dated exclusively. Since he’s gone back home though, it’s been very hard on both of us. There is a chance that we will be seeing each other again, but it seems that life has dealt us an unfair hand. We’ll always be limited in the amount of time we have together.
On most levels, we are opposites. He’s the rational Sagittarius, while I’m the emotional Pisces. But at the same time we complement each other so much, and we share many common goals and values.
I don’t know what to do. Maybe I should concentrate on trying to move on. It just seems so inconceivable, after making such a wonderful connection with someone. Is it silly to keep hope that somehow things will work out happily ever after?
Help!
Pisces Lover
Dear Lover,
Lucky you! Sounds like you had a great honeymoon and you didn’t even have to marry to get it. Pretty slick! But no, I don’t think you should put too much faith in this guy returning to sign on with you and your four kids. It’s just not his nature, is it?
See, both of you are acting just like who you are. He’s a Sagittarius and he’s done what? He’s left! This is what Sadge is famous for! And he’s left the country no less.
He’s a wild horse, maaan. A particularly sexy one, with Venus and Mars in Scorpio, so believe me, I can see his appeal. On the other hand, you are a Pisces, prone to fantasy!!
Check your question up there. You have no faith you can find a man (tide is out), you find a man (tide is in), the man leaves (tide is out), and then you’re stuck with quintessential Pisces experience: “divine discontent”. Because if only, right?
But here’s the deal. It only worked the way it worked, because it was short term!!! You both had an out built in. He’s down to one woman - he’s seeing just you, but for how long. See what I’m saying? It was a short term contract!
And here’s a little tip for you. I see a stellium in Aquarius in your chart. You don’t exactly want to be tied down, okay? So this guy was perfect. He was gone before you had a chance to become bored and now?
Well now, you can do whatever you want. Call him “the one that got away” for the rest of your life. Or you can tell yourself, “I had myself a honeymoon back in 2005… and I didn’t even have to marry to do it!!”
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