Jul
22

Her Boots Are Made For Walkin’

Dear Elsa -

I live with my family, and I’m the sitting duck when my mom’s temper erupts. She’s under a lot of stress from her job, along with other stressors. I do my best not to contribute to that. But when she gets upset, guess who gets dumped on? Me.

Speaking up for myself hasn’t garnered very positive results, and that certainly isn’t from a lack of effort. Do you have any suggestions about how to deal with her explosive temper?

Thanks,
Tired

sadge nudeDear Tired,

Yes I do. Get the hell out of there. I mean permanently, as soon as you can, but shorter term - I mean LEAVE. Get up and leave the house. Walk around the block. Anything. Just get moving.

See you’ve got all this Virgo and you want to fix people. And you’ve got all this Libra and you want to make peace with them too. But you know what? You also have a good bit of Sagittarius and Sadge knows how to leave!

So this is my idea: tell your inner Virgo, “this cannot be fixed”. Tell your Libra, you don’t have to make sweet with every freakin’ sourpuss you encounter. Well actually, you’re Libra so you do. Unless you let that Sadge take over, in which case you’re outta there bay-beeeeeee.

Good luck.~~
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