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Boyfriend Cheated With Her Friend
Hi Elsa,
I was with the same guy for 5 years, until he left me one night to be with my good friend.
Every time we try to work things out, he starts to get cold feet and runs away again - sometimes to be with my now ex-friend! I’m deeply hurt by the situation but feel lost without him.
Do you think I can move on with my life or at least forgive him for what’s happened?
Help,
Very Lost Indeed
Dear Lost,
No, you’re not going to be able to forgive him. How can you forgive him, when he’s still doing the thing that upset you - over and over and over and over? I know five years is a lot invested, but you don’t want to hang on to a man who’s screwing your friend.
Of course you can move on with your life! As a matter of fact, I’d say you aren’t going to be able to live until you move on with your life. There’s nothing to do but to cut your losses. See, if a man has “cold feet” after five years, you’ve already lost him. If he takes up with your friend, this is true 100-fold. I’m so sorry.
Cut your losses. Cry your tears. Try again.
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