Dear Wondering,

Someone up there thinks you should be together… are you sure? Maybe someone up there thinks you should be apart! This is what has manifested repeatedly, yes?

::laughs:: I’m just picking on you.

Here’s what I think. I don’t have his chart. But I think you’ve got a hard-core dilemma in yours:

The minute you’re in a relationship, you want freedom. Three minutes after you get your freedom, you want to commit again! ::shakes head::

Here’s the thing. I really don’t think it has any to do with this specific man. He probably has a similar setup in his chart, but this pattern is yours. What I mean, is you’ll constellate it with any man you meet, and it’s not subtle.

You have Uranus tied up with Venus which wants to love without rules and restrictions. You have that same Venus tied up with Saturn which is driven to commit and be responsible in love. I think you will feel bereft without a relationship, so just put that in your hopper.

But you’ll also never be rid of your urge towards independence and you’re just going to have to come to terms with this. Once you do that, you can begin to communicate honestly with someone - very likely this man. See, if you tell yourself the truth, then it becomes possible to expose yourself to another and at that point, you just might get your needs met. And what are your needs?

You need a committed partner who gives you lots of space. You don’t want him breathing down your neck every second. And if you think about this, you’ll see this is what you have with this man. It could be a lot cleaner though, so this is my advice: tidy up.

Good luck!

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