Dear Restless,

No, I don’t think there’s a way around this, exactly. You’ve got Venus and Mars in Aries and a real need for speed. Frankly, I’m surprised you go a year, because it’s the thrill of the chase you’re after.

You’d be fine if not for your equally dramatic need for a stable relationship. It’s God’s little joke on you. The best you can do is get conscious as possible and I can help you with that.

I would suggest you understand and accept that you want a partnership, but you want a some fight with your peace. So don’t bother with people who can’t deliver that. You’re looking for a lot of Scorpio, for example. A very sharp knife! If he can’t cut you, what’s he good for, right?

If you can find this - you can STAY. You do know how to stay. So here’s the deal. You want to go out there looking, with your guns strapped on where everyone can see them. Don’t even think about playing, “sweet”. You are not a maiden, are you? And this way when someone approaches you, they’ll know they are dealing with a formidable woman and they best eat their lunch.

He’s out there. There are plenty of men out there, looking for a woman like you. Just keep your focus narrow when you hunt.

Good luck