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Dumped

Hey Elsa,

I just want to know if I’m going to be happy. I’ve had a lot of stuff go on in my life recently. I just want to know right now if there’s light at the end of my tunnel because right now, all I can really see is I’m walking down this road and all there is is dark everywhere.

I just recently have been dumped by someone I’ve been seeing for three months. I really liked him and I thought that he really liked me too. At Christmas he bought me a rather expensive gift, more than what ‘just a friend’ would get for you. I honestly thought we were dating and it was a lot more serious than what he apparently thought it was. He never actually broke up with me, or so it seems like. He said that he was scared and that he wasn’t sure he was ready for a relationship and then I told him that I liked him alot and in a way I could have sworn he said the same thing. He told me that he liked spending time with me, he liked doing things with me, and that he liked being around me. And then he started seeing someone who I thought was my friend.

I’ve since moved back home and I try to tell myself that he’s not a reason why I did, but deep down I know he is. Even before I moved, he stopped talking to me and started avoiding me, pushing me away. Right now I’m looking for a new job and trying to move on with my life but I can’t stop dwelling on the situation because it never really seemed like it ended. I see the type of car he drives everywhere and it seems like every little thing reminds me of him. I just want him out of my head and to be happy. I know he’s not thinking about me so why am I wasting all my time thinking about him?
Stuck

sadgebank Dear Stuck,

This reads like some kind of train wreck. First, your boy is squirrelly. He gives you an expensive gift, and then disappears? I don’t think he has any idea what he’s doing and I don’t think it has anything to do with you, except the two of you collided and there’s got a be a reason for that.

I’d say, it’s the rejection. You seem to be reacting to the fact you were rejected, as opposed to anything about the boy specifically. This tells me you need to work on this area and I don’t think it will be all that hard.

It’s this:

“The boy left, I have no idea why, and now I am sick about it..”

Or:

“The boy left, I have no idea why, and I don’t care, because there are 100 million boys…”

Look. Here’s a little tip. You have a zillion planets in Sagittarius. Sadge is buoyant and all about perspective. What’s the story here? The guy left you confused? Or that was one confused guy?

I’m saying he’s someone you met on your travels. That’s all. And you’re basically a wild horse who has tied yourself to a post, so cut the rope and run. Do it today because you’re gonna be fine. And remember this! Remember how it easy it is to get yourself free.

Astrology, Dating | Posted at 7:44 am

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